Now That’s Strong Leadership
This week I had the pleasure of having an amazing conversation with Louie Rahil. Louie is the creator of the brand Lead With Integrity. He has an incredible Facebook group with over 5K members with the same name. Louie is a leader of leaders and his insight won’t disappoint. Your leadership bar will be raised a couple of notches after listening to this episode.
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It’s about 8:24am on a typical Monday morning. I’m sitting at my desk, reviewing reports, writing out my priorities for the coming week, while listening in on my weekly conference call. Almost immediately after my conference call concluded and my manager walked in my office and informed me of a shift in priorities for the week. He told me about a new program was that was rolling out and that we need to react quickly. At that point I ripped the sheet of paper from my notebook that had my plan and priorities for the day, balled it up and yelled “KOBE” as I shot the piece of paper into my trash can.
Isn’t it amazing how it’s been almost 130 years since Dr. Naismith invented the game of basketball and the thousands of players that have been afforded the opportunity to play at the professional level, that one name, Kobe, is the name that sounds when the average person plays office trash can basketball. It’s no coincidence. It’s no fluke. Kobe Bryant, who was tragically killed in a helicopter crash on January 26, 2020 along with 8 other passengers, one of which was his 13 year old daughter Gianna, was a once in a generation superstar. 5 Time NBA Champion, 1 Time NBA MVP, 2 Time Olympic gold medalist, 15 time NBA All-Star, 4 time NBA All Star MVP, son, husband, father and in all that he was a leader.
Here are a few principles that Kobe Bryant lived by that made him the Black Mamba:
Outwork Everyone
Kobe worked tirelessly at his game. He would arrive to the arena to put shots up before anyone else and would leave after everyone else had come and gone. Following Kobe’s untimely passing, former NBA player, now ESPN corespondent Jay Williams told his firsthand account of this. He told how he came down to the court to shoot around for a little while before his big game against the Lakers and Kobe was already there. As Williams was about to leave the court, Kobe was still there with seemingly no intentions of leaving anytime soon. Williams contemplated asking Kobe why he was still practicing for a second and built enough courage to step to him. When he finally approached him, Kobe’s response was “I wanted you to know that you will never outwork me”. That quote by Kobe really stood out to me. It serves as a reminder that, no amount of philosophy, thought leadership or self help literature can replace good old fashioned hard work. Are you out working everyone in your field?
Strengthen Your Weaknesses
In addition to his incredible work ethic, Kobe understood the importance of strengthening his weaknesses. While most people play to their strengths, Kobe played to his weaknesses. He was very self aware of what his short comings were and worked diligently to close the gaps in those areas. For example, he mentioned that his hands were big but not the biggest, so he needed to make sure he strengthen his hands to be able to palm the basketball and the other functions necessary to be a great player. I believe your strengths will always carry you but your weaknesses can hinder you from reaching the next level. Many great players never won a title because they refuse to get better defensively or improve their post skills. In the same way, what weaknesses do you have that if strengthened can take you to another level?
Goat Mountain
As iconic of a player as Kobe was and a goat in his own right, Kobe understood the importance of seeking guidance from the greats. In fact, when he needed advice or wisdom, he visited what he referred to as Goat Mountain. Goat Mountain was a like a Mont Rushmore of sorts for Kobe. He placed a handful of great past NBA Legends on Goat Mountain. His Goat Mountain consisted of Bill Russell, Larry Bird, Hakeem Olajuwon and Michael Jordan. Anytime he needed advice on improving a skill set, help navigating tough issues with teammates or life in general he went to see one of the aforementioned legends. While it’s great to leverage your peers for advice or family members, nothing will compare to advice from those that did it better than anyone else. There was a time that Kobe wanted to improve his moves in the post, he reached out to arguably the greatest post player of all-time and the inventor of the “Dream Shake”, Hakeem Olajuwon. Olajuwon spend much of the off season working with Kobe. As a result, Kobe became a much more competent post player. To be great, I believe it’s important to study the greats and learn from them. In whatever field you are in, identify who’s great, study them, pick their brain and incorporate what you’ve learned into your style. Who’s in your Goat Mountain?
I will be vulnerable here, his death hit me hard. I was brought to tears when I learned of his untimely passing. I immediately thought about how he was still very young and how he was focused on passing his greatness on the court down to his daughter Gianna, moments later I learned she was with him and passed as well. A truly devastating day. Although I never had the privilege of meeting him, I followed his career so closely that I felt like I knew him. I always admired his work ethic and his will to win. As a lifelong Rockets fan, it was sometimes difficult to express my true fandom, but I made a point to attend the game whenever he was in town. I’m happy to say I even witnessed his last game versus the Rockets in Houston first hand with my best friend and my wife. Long before his passing I had his book Mamba Mentality placed prominently over my desk as a reminder to always strive to be the “Kobe Bryant” of my field, even when times are tough. As I reflect on the life and legacy of Kobe Bryant, I will continue use his legacy as an example of how to be great at my craft, my career and just life in general. Rest in power Kobe!
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Kaepernick Told Us
Written By Jarvis Sam
After a 140 day hiatus due to Covid-19, the NBA has returned. The NBA has the hashtag #WholeNewGame because of the changes that have been made to ensure safety for everyone during these unprecedented times. First and foremost, there is no crowd! Well that is unless you count the fans that are there virtually. Secondly, they are in “the bubble”. No one can leave or comeback without doing a 10 day quarantine, just ask Lou Williams who decided run up to Magic City for some hot wings. Third, the players are on the sidelines socially distanced. Commentators have a partition separating them and sideline corespondents are wearing masks and maintaining social distancing when conducting interviews.
There are a host of other changes but here’s the one that stood out the most was the addition of all the social justice elements. These elements include players opting to have social justice messaging on the backs of there jerseys instead of their own name to Black Lives Matter covering the side of the court. When the National Anthem was played everyone took a knee....wait a minute this sounds a bit familiar.
Let’s hit the rewind button and allow me to take you back to summer of 2016. July 5, 2016 Alton Sterling was murdered by 2 police officers outside of a convenience store. July 6, 2016 Philando Castile was murdered in cold blood in his car with his daughter and girlfriend in the car. In the wake of the murders of Philando Castile and Alton Sterling, our nation got a harsh reminder of the reality of police brutality and systemic racism. The Black Lives Matter movement which started several years prior became stronger and gained great traction as the black community and other allies began to rally behind it.
During the NFL preseason later that year, then San Francisco 49ers Super Bowl quarterback Colin Kaepernick was seen sitting on the bench during the National Anthem in protest of the recent killings of black men at the hands of the police. After having conversations with some teammates and a former NFL player he decided to be more respectful to the country and then on September 1, 2016 during the National Anthem of the final preseason game, Kaepernick took a knee. Kaepernick’s intent was never to disrespect the country or the men and women in the armed forces, it was to simply use his platform to bring awareness to the inequality and police brutality that our country is still facing.
“This country stands for freedom, justice and liberty for all and it’s not happening for all right now...I’m standing up for those who don’t have a voice” Kaepernick said in a post game interview when asked what he was trying to accomplish through his protest.
This sparked a great deal of controversy. By late September, many NFL players were kneeling or raising their fist during the anthem. The protests became a bigger headline than the actual games themselves. Coverage of the games would begin with a recap of what happened during the anthem. Who stood? Who kneeled? Who raised a fist? Who locked arms? With that in mind, Kaepernick’s protest was doing exactly what it needed to and that is create awareness and spark dialogue. No matter what your stance on the issues at hand, you could not ignore what was happening. Many people stopped watching football because of it. Others were very vocal one way or another. The reality is Kaepernick made an impact.
On the field was a different story. Amidst of all the controversy, Kaepernick still tried to lead a struggling 49ers team. He put up decent numbers and played like an average starting quarterback in the league but the team under his leadership went 1-10 before he was sidelined. Going into the next season he opted out of his contract and became a free agent as there were talks of the team releasing him anyway. Now the big story has become, which team will sign Kaepernick for the 2017 campaign? The answer was shocking, NO ONE. 32 teams and no one signed him. This is a total miscarriage of justice and even more evident of the racist climate we have in this country.
Let’s think about this for a minute. There are 32 NFL franchises. Each team operates with at least 3 quarterbacks on their depth chart. This would imply that there are 96 quarterbacks that are better than Colin Kaepernick. In the 2016 season where the Niners struggled, he still put up respectable stats. He had over 2200 passing yards, almost 500 rushing yards, 16 Touchdowns, only 4 interceptions and a QB rating of 90.7. There is no convincing me that 96 quarterbacks were better, especially when my hometown Houston Texans didn’t have a better quarterback on the roster period.
It became apparent that NFL had blackballed him for his actions in the previous year. This was a very passive aggressive way of letting him know that they no longer needed his services. Of course later lawsuits ensued and Kaepernick became a major activist in the black community. Not only did he reach a settlement with the NFL, Nike took him as a partner and created merchandise and shoes that sold out instantly. Kaepernick never backed down or apologized for anything, rightfully so. Instead he stood his ground and the bold stance took paid off in the end.
We all know how 2020 has gone. In the middle of a historic pandemic, we saw a cop take knee on the neck of an unarmed black man. Taking his life in a matter of 8 minutes. This is also following the murders of Breonna Taylor and Ahmaud Arbery that had taken place earlier in the year. This of course sparked an onslaught of outrage yet again. Here we are again, this time with masks on, protesting and taking a stand against this corrupt system. This time however we see a very focused and intentional stance for social justice. It really feels like people have had enough. People are seeking out black owned businesses at a rate like never before. Juneteenth is being recognized as a holiday. You can not open Facebook or Instagram without seeing Black Lives Matter or Justice for Breonna Taylor. This momentum has been sustained since late May 2020 and still going strong.
We are 4 years removed from Kaepernick taking a knee, all sports leagues are getting on the social justice bandwagon. We have seen baseball players taking a knee during the first few games of their season. Then during the opening games of the NBA restart we saw everyone taking a knee and wearing Black Lives Matter on their pregame attire. As I stated earlier the court now has Black Lives Matter going across the side. All of this is beautiful but about 4 years too late. It can definitely be argued that it’s way more than 4 years too late but I’m simply referencing Kaepernick doing this 4 years ago and now it seems the world has finally caught up.
I believe for most people it is much easier to do something when it’s being encouraged and welcomed, but it takes a person of character and a true leader to stand boldly when no one else is doing it. Let me encourage you by saying what you’re doing won’t always make sense to others at the moment but if you stand firmly for what you believe in, continue to walk in excellence and integrity when it’s seems everyone is coming against you, you will see the fruits of your labor on the other side. Colin Kaepernick used his platform to spearhead a change that we are seeing manifest 4 years later. It is my hope that we continue to bring awareness and keep our foot on the gas pedal when it comes to police brutality, racial inequality and systemic racism, then the work and sacrifice of Kaepernick will truly not go in vain.